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School All Year!?


I was talking to my husband recently, and he said the thing most children would totally dread:  School should be all year.  OMG!! Are you kidding me?  Even me, the most obsessive and tyrannical parent ever was totally displaced by his statement.  Furthermore, I am an education lawyer.  I argue with school districts daily on behalf of my clients.  Even I thought 12-month school for typical general education students is a radical thought that should not happen.

After pondering this more however, he may be right (sorry dear daughter).  Even outside of COVID, American children have lagged in nearly every subject in comparison to peers in other countries.  Sending children K-12 to school year-round would not only catch them up academically, it would also give parents a more stable, less expensive childcare option.  However, there is much to be said for the option of summer camp, vacations, and summer days filled with nothing scheduled.  As a parent of older children, I would have welcomed a steadier option of school between July-September, but I loved their joy while home on a summer afternoon.

Further thought provided me with a more moderate option, something the NYC Chancellor of Education has recently hinted as a plan for the NYC Department of Education:  Allow parents to choose whether to send their children to school during the summer even if they are not academically at risk.  My daughter was blessed to have synchronous learning from April 2020 – present, even when she was remote.  Now I am certain she missed some key learning objectives during this time.  I mean, she has been isolated from her friends for a year which impacts her psyche, and in turn her overall development.  I would not however send her to school year round, because I believe in mental breaks.  She takes pure joy in those days when she has no activities, no school, and nothing schedule.  She can literally do nothing for a day or two.  We all need those breaks.

So here is my suggestion:  School for 9 months with breaks.  Close end of June like normal (or end of May in the South), then re-open July 15 – August 15 (or June 1-July 1 for the South), and allow parents to decide.  This still gives children breaks in early July and end of August (or end of May and July in the South).  Families can still vacation.  Children can still attend sleep away camp.  Teachers can make extra money, or opt out of summer teaching altogether.  Bottom line is there may be a demand for more school in the summer, but it should not a requirement.

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March 12, 2021 · 2:57 pm

Lists are a Way of Life


I love lists, they are literally my lifeline.  I have lists for almost every facet of my life.  I also need to write down dates, calendar events, even my morning routine.  I have teenagers, so they are accountable for their own work, school, and daily routine, so I have been working on teaching them the value of a list.  They think I am crazy when I help them create their lists for the day, but inevitably, they are seen crossing things off their list throughout the day, even showing me what they accomplished.  This is great because the more they accomplish on their own, the less I have to do for them.    Ahh, organization all around!!

Studies show that people perform better when they have written down what they need to do.  Why is that?  It seems forming and following a list decreases the anxiety of accomplishing our tasks, give us structure, and shows us what we have achieved (the cross out method).  I totally agree.  I know for a fact that I am more productive at work and life when I have a list of what I plan to accomplish each day before I start the day.  I also use my calendar as a part of the list.  Scheduling as much as possible in my calendar provides me with the structure to accomplish each task since I have it neatly placed in a timeslot during the day.  My calendar also makes sure I don’t take too long to complete certain tasks, or get distracted doing something totally outside the bounds of my list.  In short, writing down my tasks AND calendaring them in my calendar (on my phone of course), ensures I am productive both in my work and family life.

So how do you start this amazing habit?  In my opinion, start with a diary/journal.  I found that having a diary of just my to do list offers me the opportunity to consistently see my accomplishments, and also keeps me organized.  I used to put all notes for the day in the diary, and found I was very disorganized because I could never find a note I took, or something I wrote down.  Now, I have a notebook for notetaking, and a diary for my to do list.  Things are so much better in my brain.

Get started, you will not regret it. 

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March 10, 2021 · 3:09 pm